A Complete Guide to Using Vibrators in Public Magic Motion

I like to drape mine over the head of a wand vibrator when I’m feeling too sensitive for direct contact since it softens the sensations to a comfortable level without dulling them too much. You want this to be for both of you, something special that you can share. Offer to bring your partner along to the store or to shop online with you. It might relax them to see that there are so many options for sex toys , as well as not-at-all scary places to shop for them.

The folks at Satisfyer sent me a few of their app-friendly toys recently and a partner and I decided to try a few out (for science). On top of some extensive solo research, I’m here to give you a run-down of a few of their app-controlled sex toys that you might want to pick up ASAP. The other side of the toy—which functions as the handle of the wand portion—is a 5.75-inch long dildo with a motor that allows it to vibrate, twirl vibrators, or twist. When used as a dildo, the Vibrato can help people who enjoy penetration get theirs, Weiss says. Many vulva-owners enjoy penetration even more after a clitoral orgasm, as the vagina often expands and becomes more lubricated in response to pleasure, she says. As such, she loves that each side of the vibrator can provide a different kind of orgasm.

In turn, you can share said information with a partner to make your sexual exploits infinitely more pleasurable. According to a 2017 survey, vibrators make up more than 70% of the sex toys owned by people who identify as women. We-Vibe and Lovehoney partnered up for a device that delivers a totally hands-free vibing session. It has ten quiver-inducing speeds and vibration patterns that you can play with via wireless remote control. That means on-the-go pleasure that you can take with you into the bedroom, your partner’s apartment, and even the shower. “Masturbation allows you to lean into pleasure—what makes you orgasm, what your body responds to — and this will enhance partner sex too,” Zar adds.

But just when I thought the sex toy market had reached peak ingenuity, I was proven wrong, when a vibrator inspired by snails went viral on TikTok. These sex toys vary widely in terms of looks, operation, and the sensations they provide, but fall most commonly into two categories. You’re about to have this vibe literally and figuratively wrapped around your finger. You can use it together to spice up foreplay or use it alone when you need some me-time. This vibrating penis ring scores a whisper-quiet two out of five on Babeland’s volume scale. Besides keeping your pleasure sessions on the down low, it also possesses 10 intensity levels, an easy-on quick-release design and a custom fit among its many pros.

We’ve also included a budget option for anyone who is looking to test the waters before diving in. We partnered with sexual health and wellness company Smile Makers to help you find a device you’ll love. With both male and female attachments, the wireless and rechargeable Domi works at both close and long ranges. With a universal head, the Wand comes with two attachments you can switch out easily.

The vibe’s aesthetic weirdness may be a pro or con, depending on your own taste. For me, it just didn’t scream “sexy.” That doesn’t mean you can’t have a delightful, sensual time with it — hell, I know at least one of you has a snail fetish, probably — but it didn’t put me in the mood. While I commend SnailVibe for being an innovative toy among a crowded market, it unfortunately didn’t “wow” me. Combined with its lack of sex appeal (in my opinion), SnailVibe isn’t worth the price for me — but read on to see if it could be a fit for you. Customers have mixed experiences with the massager’s battery life – while some report it lasts a while, others mention that the battery dies and won’t accept a charge. And by “mileage” I mean “anatomy.” Every person’s body is different.

“Vibrators with various settings and modes of stimulation allow you to explore a range of sensations to discover what feels best,” she says. “Versatile options are also ideal if you enjoy switching between different types of stimulation or want a toy that can be used in different ways, whether during solo or partnered play,” she adds. The Lush 3’s curved design provides simultaneous internal and external stimulation, with the egg vibrator designed to target the G-spot while a smaller vibrating pebble sits on the clitoris. Testers loved that the base is compatible with all Love Not War vibe heads – ideal when you can’t decide what you’re in the mood for – and they rated the sleek, waterproof design, long-lasting battery and handy travel-lock feature.

The Rechargeable model features a softer, smoother silicone head, which is much easier to clean and may feel more comfortable against the body. Nonporous and less prone to discoloration, the Rechargeable model’s silicone head eliminates any previous concerns about phthalates, a plasticizer in the Original version’s vinyl head. Virtually all of our testers reported that the Magic Wand was the only toy in our test group that could consistently bring them to an intense climax quickly, intuitively, effectively, and predictably. In an essay published in the book Mothers Who Think, sex expert Susie Bright calls the Magic Wand a “miracle” because its power enables many users to have an orgasm within 60 seconds. Multiple academic research studies have found that prescribing the Magic Wand is one of the most effective therapies for women who struggle with chronic anorgasmia, or the inability to reach orgasm. Because pleasure is highly subjective, our testers couldn’t possibly represent the needs and preferences of every person who may enjoy using a vibrator.

Its hands-free vibrations can be controlled via Bluetooth using the Lovense app, which also allows you to pass the controls to a partner, whether they’re located halfway around the world or lying right next to you in bed. The Dame Aer is the first air-suction toy that we’ve liked better than our previous picks from Womanizer (the first brand to offer this technology). It’s significantly smaller and narrower than the Womanizer Classic we also like, and it’s made from a softer silicone material that’s more comfortable against the body. Most notably, of all the suction toys we’ve tried, the Aer produces a sensation that feels most similar to oral sex, according to our testers.

The vibrator comes in its own storage case, which is a huge plus considering its size (you can’t just stuff it in your drawer…well, you could, but it’d be cumbersome). While only available in purple on Lovers, SnailVibe comes in both pink and purple from its direct site. The Cherry Emojibator is super versatile in that it has a simple USB type A charger, but actually finding the entry port for the charger is a little difficult.